Category Archives: suffering

“I Want to Forgive But I Still Have Pain.”

Posted on July 20, 2014 by

This phrase frequently comes up during in the course of counseling.  Many have injuries from past and even current relationships that continue to cause pain thus hindering advancement to fuller productive lives.  The desire to move on is present but … Continue reading →

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The “Little Way”of St. Therese a Cure for OCD?

Posted on June 21, 2014 by

What does a Carmelite nun who lived during the late 1800s in France have to do with overcoming the obsession thoughts and/or compulsions that are symptomatic of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)?  St. Therese (1873-1897), whose writings composed the beautiful autobiography … Continue reading →

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Reflections on Over the Hill + One Year

Posted on February 14, 2014 by

Another date crossed out on the calendar as I approach another year of my journey. Over a half of a century is definitely in my rear view mirror. I do know that in many ways my “inside self” still feels … Continue reading →

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In the Dead of Winter

Posted on January 16, 2014 by

This time of year always makes me think about the season.  How can I ignore it?  In Chicago the air is usually bitter cold.  I’m not talking about it being a little bit chilly.  It’s downright frigid with temperatures preferring … Continue reading →

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On the Visit of the Blessed Virgin Mary: She Shows up in the Most Surprising Places

Posted on May 31, 2013 by

Recently I came across a photo on Facebook of a Blessed Virgin Mary statue that had settled in the front yard of a property that had been ravaged by an EF5 tornado in Moore, Oklahoma.  On May 20, 2013, a … Continue reading →

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Feast Day of Our Lady of Lourdes Brings a Big Announcement

Posted on February 11, 2013 by

Today, February 11 is the Feast Day of Our Lady of Lourdes.  The Feast of Our Lady of Lourdes marks the observance of the World Day of the Sick.  This celebration is a reminder to pray for the sick and … Continue reading →

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On the Tragic Loss of a Child: The Feast of the Holy Innocents

Posted on December 28, 2012 by

 “A person that loses a partner is called a widow. A child who loses a parent is called an orphan. But there is no word to describe a parent that loses a child, Because the loss is like no other. … Continue reading →

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Another Senseless Tragedy?

Posted on December 14, 2012 by

What Kind of Society are we Becoming? I was walking through the business lounge at my office building when I heard someone ask, “What kind of society are we becoming?  Are we no longer safe when we go to a movie theater, the … Continue reading →

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For the Poor in Spirit

Posted on November 9, 2012 by

  The first day in this month of November is observed in the Catholic Church as All Saints Day. The Gospel reading for that day featured Jesus preaching the Sermon on the Mount in Matthew 5:1-12. The very first Beatitude is … Continue reading →

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The Cry for Help: Tips on Seeking Counseling

Posted on October 28, 2012 by

Common fears and misconceptions about seeking help Initiating counseling is a very big step for most people. In fact it is very common to have some apprehension about seeking professional help with personal issues. There are concerns about whether or … Continue reading →

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