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- “I Want to Forgive But I Still Have Pain.”
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- On the Visit of the Blessed Virgin Mary: She Shows up in the Most Surprising Places
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“I Want to Forgive But I Still Have Pain.”
This phrase frequently comes up during in the course of counseling. Many have injuries from past and even current relationships that continue to cause pain thus hindering advancement to fuller productive lives. The desire to move on is present but … Continue reading
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Tagged Forgiveness, Self-compassion, self-esteem
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The “Little Way”of St. Therese a Cure for OCD?
What does a Carmelite nun who lived during the late 1800s in France have to do with overcoming the obsession thoughts and/or compulsions that are symptomatic of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)? St. Therese (1873-1897), whose writings composed the beautiful autobiography … Continue reading
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Tagged Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, OCD, St. Therese of Lisieux
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Reflections on Over the Hill + One Year
Another date crossed out on the calendar as I approach another year of my journey. Over a half of a century is definitely in my rear view mirror. I do know that in many ways my “inside self” still feels … Continue reading
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Tagged Aging, Birthday, humility, perfectionism, self-esteem, St. Claude de la Columbiere
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In the Dead of Winter
This time of year always makes me think about the season. How can I ignore it? In Chicago the air is usually bitter cold. I’m not talking about it being a little bit chilly. It’s downright frigid with temperatures preferring … Continue reading
Posted in Counseling, suffering, Uncategorized
Tagged life's journey, Meaning of Suffering, storms of life, Winter
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Feast Day of Our Lady of Lourdes Brings a Big Announcement
Today, February 11 is the Feast Day of Our Lady of Lourdes. The Feast of Our Lady of Lourdes marks the observance of the World Day of the Sick. This celebration is a reminder to pray for the sick and … Continue reading
Another Senseless Tragedy?
What Kind of Society are we Becoming? I was walking through the business lounge at my office building when I heard someone ask, “What kind of society are we becoming? Are we no longer safe when we go to a movie theater, the … Continue reading
Posted in Counseling, Popular events, suffering, Uncategorized
Tagged Going Postal, Mass shootings, murder, Newton Connecticut
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Beyond Lives of Quiet Desperation: Moving from Surviving and Coping to Really Thriving
What is it to really thrive? Do you feel as though life has been passing you by? Are you waiting for your ship to come in? Do you find yourself asking if this is all there is to life? Not long ago … Continue reading
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Tagged coping skills, Fight or fligh response, overcoming addictions, thriving, what is happiness
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On Going to the Moon: Not Just Another Raving “Lunatic”
A popular lunatic One of my favorite old-time TV programs is the Honeymooners. A line from that 1950s sitcom which always makes me laugh is when Ralph Kramden, played by Jackie Gleason, gets flustered at his wife and yells, “To … Continue reading
Accepting New Clients in the Chicago Area
I am now accepting new clients in the Chicago area. A faith-based approach to counseling is offered to persons from all backgrounds. Please see the attached announcement for details.
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